There are many modern day Nicodemuses walking the cities in the
night hour in search of answers to questions that may never be asked at
public functions. Some have come close to several Christians who rather than
listen to the meta-message were carried away by the “generosity” of these
souls in search of meaning for life or by the glowing attributes paid to
them. Rather than hearing their frustrations with flamboyant life, they are
recognized as celebrities. They are made to sit in special pews without
answers to their questions.
Biodun Coker
Pastor
RCCG-CHRIST CHURCH
Arlington, Texas
Christlike Reflections
In the heart of every person
in every nation are some questions seeking for answers. The
searches for answers take people to covens, mountains and valleys.
These questions seeking for
answers may generally account for why people act up. These
questions are at the core of every person. A core is the
essential, fundamental and central part of a thing. It contributes
to what and who a person is and what that person believes in. It
is the innermost layer that is revealed when the sophisticated and
rationalistic outer coatings are removed. Core questions then are
fundamentally significant questions seeking for answers. They are
rarely asked at public gatherings. Sometimes they come in form of
parables and illustrations. Sometimes they are cited as a question
about a friend that lives in a far away country. People ask these
questions for several years without anyone really listening to the
meta-message- the message in a message. Sometimes, the
questions become theological or doctrinal arguments and still
leave the inquirer with no answer after dissipation of energy. .
Such argument often presents itself as lack of affection which is
interpreted to mean "no one cares”. It is at this point that
people generally start to act up. This may be the unanswered core
questions shouting for help. Of course, the society has a way of
answering the questions with her judgment of what is considered as
deviant behaviors. The first of these unanswered questions touches
on salvation and redemption. It comes in different forms- “who
shall deliver me from this body of sin?” “how shall I be saved
from guilt and fear” and those that ‘dislike’ me? Remember that
it is so easy to feel disliked when you don’t like who you are.
Sometimes, some of the unanswered questions become spoken by
sighing.
I have often wondered at the
behavior of a member of the ruling council in the days of Jesus
named Nicodemus in the gospel of John chapter 3. He was a rich
member of the council who came to consult with Jesus in the night.
The issue at the core of his heart and life must have caused him
chronic insomnia that losing one more night of sleep in search of
a solution was not an inconvenience to him at all. His night call
may have been for fear of being excommunicated or perhaps a need
to have Jesus’ maximum attention at this hour of the night. All in
all, his question was not something to be discussed in the public.
As a member of the ruling council, he was circumcised and
expectedly well versed in the letters. Jesus called him “A master
of Israel”. It was obvious he was not coming for bible study or
any other ritual. On the face value, he was a complete man and
nothing (physical, emotional or financial) could ever suggest a
need in the life of this man. He started his interaction by paying
glowing tributes to Jesus by referring to him as a teacher that is
from God. He even exposed others who did not come for he became
the group’s spokesperson. He said “We know that you are a teacher
come from God". He acknowledged the approval of God on Jesus’
ministry which is not upon them as the ruling elites. That is one
sentence that would have made any globe-trotting, Tele-evangelist
head swell but not so for Jesus. He was a listener. He heard the
meta-message. He heard the heart cry of Nicodemus. He reached out
to the core of his troubled life. He was able to connect with the
struggle of a man in ministry, with several credentials yet
doubting and seeking divine approval. Jesus saw into the innermost
being of Nicodemus and that was what the encounter focused on.
Nicodemus’ core question was “what makes you unique and different
from us?”
This would no doubt have
being an opportunity for Jesus to raise some money for his
ministry as the one who came consulting was rich. Jesus knew
better. He focused on the one fundamental thing that makes the
difference between mere existence and purposeful, victorious
living-the new birth. He declared “except a man be born again… It
was a deeper truth for Nicodemus. It exposed his ignorance as “a
master” in the land. Have you ever watched a public figure that
has answers to everything having his or her tongue tied when
confronted with what he or she does not know? That was the case
of Nicodemus. In this night hour however, he could asked the core
questions without fear of excommunication or any feeling of shame
for being ignorant of the divine truth. Jesus did not hide the
truth from him. He knew of his core questions. He did not keep
anything away from him for the fear of offending this wealthy man.
He saw a man in need of answers to deepest questions in the
innermost recess of his heart. He was presented with a fundamental
principle of life. A cow gives birth to a cow so does a dog to a
dog. A man will therefore give birth to a man. If therefore
Nicodemus has believed that he is from God and that God is with
him, it must be that he was born of God. Jesus then made it known
that that same experience is available for “any man”. He made it
known that it was not an experience only for the elites but for
“any man”- men from any nation, race or tribe, tall or short, rich
or poor, employer or employee, moral or immoral. An experience
that is available for men of every rank and file. That was a bit
confusing for Nicodemus of the chosen race who was looking for
something that may give him an edge over others or something that
will keep his rank in the society.
His answer to the proposition
reveals that he was happy that someone could answer his innermost
questions this time around. He was not ready to beat about the
bush any longer. Someone that was paying glowing attribute a while
ago became instantly inquisitive. It was needless hiding his need
anymore. He asked a sincere question that any honest and truthful
person will ask because he did not understand what it means to be
born from above. He wondered how an old man will be able to go
back into his mother’s womb to be born again. “Can a man enter the
second time into his mother's womb and be born?” Jn 3:4 .Jesus
Christ declared that if this were possible, it would still not
change anything as whatever is born of the flesh remain flesh
.Every plant will forever be of the nature of the seed that
brought if forth. The greatest challenge to understanding
spiritual truth is pride. It takes humility to unlearn what has
been learned in order to learn knew things. When a man cannot
humble himself to learn divine truth, he casts his own idea in
stones. He becomes recalcitrant and his conduct becomes
burdensome. Dear friend, is this your current experience? Is there
an issue that is bothering you? Is there a core question about
being “born again” though you are an elder? Are you tired of your
condition and you are asking “who will deliver me from this guilt
and fear?" Will you rather own up to a need for learning instead
of rationalizing? Will you be humble to learn rather than holding
on to your own ideas? Will you be sincere like Nicodemus to seek
God? “And ye shall seek me, and find [me], when ye shall search
for me with all your heart. Jer 29:13
Jesus spoke emphatically of
Nicodemus’ need for spiritual birth- the second birth. The first
birth is the beginning of earthly life which introduces us into a
world of sin. To be delivered from the hold of this world, every
man must be born from above. The second birth connects every man
back to God. Nothing can satisfy the longing for this connection.
Men have sought for several things in place of this connection and
nothing else seems to have worked. This new birth is the beginning
of spiritual life. It affords us the rare opportunity to live
purposefully or put succinctly by Rick Warren-to be purpose
driven. It is the time that we are adopted into the family of
God-no longer strangers but heirs together of the grace of God.
Without this second birth, no man can fit into and partake of the
divine nature and the blessings that Nicodemus observed of Jesus.
There are many modern day Nicodemuses walking the cities in the night hour in search of
answers to questions that may never be asked at public functions.
Some have come close to several Christians who rather than listen
to the meta-message were carried away by the “generosity” of these
souls in search of meaning for life or by the glowing attributes
paid to them. Rather than hearing their frustrations with
flamboyant life, they are recognized as celebrities. They are made
to sit in special pews without answers to their questions. Rather
than using such a time of being alone to explore several of their
unanswered questions; sometimes, believers delve into frivolities
and left such people wondering if any one cares at all. It is time
to hear the rumblings that is going on in the hearts of our
friends, family members and neighbors. That is one of the things
that made our Jesus Christ unique.